authoritarian behavior

Authoritarian behavior is usual as the propaganda we receive during our lives brainwashes us that there is no vital society with no hierarchical schemes to form it. We come to believe that one will be more happy as higher is one's position on the hierarchical scale. (Sometimes) unconsciously one is authoritative, likes to order, to dominate, to violate one's relations with other people, to rule others to live their lives in one's likes. This can be seen even in small things (the way a person talks to his/her friend, the way that the parents treat towards their kids etc.), and can extend to monstrous results (e.g. home violence).